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homemade strawberry shortcakes on a friday night. solid...

Fri, 24 May 2013 21:50:27 -0700

homemade strawberry shortcakes on a friday night. solid decision.

lychgate: no way guys

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:43:59 -0700

lychgate:

no way guys

"You seek happiness. You seek oneness. You seek compatibility, love, affection, fulfillment, desire,..."

Thu, 23 May 2013 23:27:15 -0700

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You seek happiness. You seek oneness. You seek compatibility, love, affection, fulfillment, desire, lust, envy, pain, excitement, etc., but most importantly happiness. You want to be happy. You want to wake up each day with a happy content feeling, and you want to go to bed each night feeling warm, connected, and complete. You want someone to share your life with. Whether or not you openly admit any of this, it’s true. It’s what is engraved in every person walking this planet. Some repress this so deeply and are in such denial and such misery, that they’ve accepted this as a way of life and will die lonely, if nothing else to prove that I am wrong.

I realize INTJ’s are one of the more remote type of spectrum, and we are the most tolerant of being alone, and we may need more alone time than any of our fellow humans, but that doesn’t mean we don’t need love—quite to the contrary.

You seek seclusion because it won’t work, or you’re too independent; because your needs come first and you have everything already figured out and mapped out and ironed out and thought through, and adding another human to the mix would completely upset everything—and we hate change. On top of that we’re extremely unfamiliar with our feelings, or why we feel a certain way, or what they all mean, or where this is going, or where did it come from. We try to rationalize and compartmentalize every aspect of our life—internal and external, and this very much includes emotions and feelings, and when we can’t find a neat tidy little box we panic and reject whatever is confusing us—often times it’s our feelings that get the raw end of this stick.

So what, then? We’re doomed? It’s over?

Relationships take work, and I don’t care how hard a give and take relationship may seem, it’s possible and vital to our survival and our happiness. If we have fallen too far down, finding someone-anyone-to trust whether that be a friend or a professional counselor, we must create the foundation for success. We must learn to trust.

When you find the right person, suddenly your schedule and your way of life is malleable, and your interests and desires are compatible. It becomes exciting and fascinating to watch how different your partner is from you, and how you guys can work together and grow. Suddenly the immovable objects in your life are moved because you want them to be. And that’s what life is all about: compromise, love, forgiveness, happiness, family, companionship… you see a pattern? All of these things involve people, and all of these people require love and trust—the two things that come the hardest for us. But that just means that once you find what you’re looking for it will be that much better.

As long as you never close this door in your heart, and you’re always taking small steps forward you’ll be OK.

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- Ryan

http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/118388-sad-but-true-story-how-i-react-feelings-opposite-sex-2.html

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no but seriously i feel like i just had coffee but i didn’t and i still want some caffeine...

Thu, 23 May 2013 22:28:21 -0700

no but seriously i feel like i just had coffee but i didn’t

and i still want some caffeine what

and obviously i feel the need to shout this to the world

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Thu, 23 May 2013 22:22:19 -0700

in a really good mood don’t want to sleep just want to watch arrested development and read...

Thu, 23 May 2013 22:20:43 -0700

in a really good mood don’t want to sleep just want to watch arrested development and read gatsby again and then watch dexter or something and then bake a cake and drink some coffee and maybe design a wedding dress or something and then sit in my room getting drunk by myself and then call everyone i know and then talk to you and tell you my secrets and then go shopping at trader joe’s

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Thu, 23 May 2013 16:04:12 -0700

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damnafricawhathappened: Blurred Lines | Robin Thicke (feat....

Wed, 22 May 2013 22:53:01 -0700

damnafricawhathappened:

Blurred Lines | Robin Thicke (feat. T.I. & Pharrell)

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Tue, 21 May 2013 20:19:16 -0700

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Tue, 21 May 2013 20:15:19 -0700

I love watching my innocent friends slowly transform into beautiful horny butterflies as we get...

Tue, 21 May 2013 17:43:11 -0700

I love watching my innocent friends slowly transform into beautiful horny butterflies as we get older

if only…

Tue, 21 May 2013 10:45:47 -0700

if only…

lucyroselikes: Day 184: Can’t live without...

Mon, 20 May 2013 23:53:05 -0700

lucyroselikes:

Day 184: Can’t live without eyeliner

www.lucygoodwin.co.uk

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Mon, 20 May 2013 19:42:33 -0700

cybergay: cloudy with a chance of me not getting laid this summer

Mon, 20 May 2013 19:33:59 -0700

cybergay:

cloudy with a chance of me not getting laid this summer

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